Traditionally, to marry is considered a great step in life. Cares and precautions must be taken care of to ensure that you do not end up marrying the wrong person. As most know, their no wrong person but he or might not be the suitable partner for you to tie a knot with.
So before you marry, your partner was to be assessed by your parents first. My friend Peter, due to his respect to his bachelor father, decided to present his beautiful girl to him to see if she was enough for him. His father being physical oriented, decline. He said that the girl did not meet all the qualifications he thought would be the character of ideal partner for his child, Peter.
When peter asked him why he did not want and yet he loved so much. To amusement of many, he replied with an answer that everyone conclude was the reason he was a bachelor. He said.’ a beautiful girl should be tall, chocolate, medium sized with perfect figure of an angel. To be brief, there is beautiful wife for you my son, just be single like me.’
Lesson
To look for advice is not wrong but take care to whom you look for advice from. Some want you to fail like them. They have no good plan for your success.
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The lesson drawn from this anecdote is clear: while seeking advice from trusted sources can be valuable, it is essential to consider the motives and perspectives of those offering guidance. Not everyone may have your best interests at heart, and their advice may be colored by their own biases, experiences, or shortcomings. Ultimately, individuals should rely on their own judgment and discernment when making important life decisions, including choosing a life partner.
That’s a great lesson