Your life becomes both calm and chaotic when you fall in love, but it spirals out of control when you accept that the person you love will inevitably leave. You attempt to predict their behavior to prevent a breakup because your nervous system is aware that people always end relationships. But as you study every action they take, you get fixated on them, which develops into an obsession and strong attachment. You become agitated and nervous as a result of this addiction, losing your equilibrium and composure.
The person you love is the only one who can make you feel less anxious, so you need them to comfort you more often. Small things can set you off, and when you overreact to trivial problems, you push them away. This makes the space cramped, and your neediness drives them away.
You tell yourself, “I knew it,” to console yourself, yet you really created the circumstance. If your unconscious programming is not unpacked, your life will either be fated or unlucky.
Quite insightful read!
The vulnerability and intensity that love brings often clash with the fear of loss, creating a rollercoaster of emotions. Your insights shed light on how this fear can inadvertently shape our behaviors, affecting the very relationships we hope to protect. It’s a reminder of the importance of self-awareness and understanding our subconscious patterns to cultivate healthier connections. Thanks for sharing.