Many men make the most of being single, but when it comes time to settle down, they mostly pick a lady who has never been on her own, living alone, as a student, or being taken care for by parents. They use gifts and promises to entice her into marriage, but they are unable to quell her innate need to travel.
It is your moral obligation as an older man to be sincere and give her the benefit of the doubt. Since these females aren’t exposed, most men marry them under the mistaken belief that they are controllable. But then they’ll be there under your nose, and she’ll get the need to explore the world. She will either get resentful of you for denying her the chance, or she will experience that phase right before your nose. Most significantly, she’ll thaw into her genuine self and be replaced by an independent-minded grown-up. Since they are not always promiscuous, it is vital to date women who have experienced the whole cycle of being single and have the capacity to settle down with one man.
Societal standards put more pressure to settle on women. Maybe that should be the first change we need