partnerships can be lovely when they begin like a fairy tale, but when they come to an end, they turn into something “worse than strangers.” This is the harsh reality of partnerships. It’s important to be content by yourself or to be open to making concessions because your partner might injure you and not feel bad about it or apologize. Here’s where the harsh reality sets in: you have to let go and forgive yourself.
A stranger you meet seems like the happiest individuals on the globe once you grow to like them. Suddenly, everything changes. Schedules are adapted based on the partner’s adaptability, and nights turn into a playground for exchanging emotions. You stop talking to people in an attempt to make them feel important and start putting yourself first.
After a few months, you begin to see the slow down in the relationship, when jokes become repetitive and neither of you can stand being irritated by nothing. Small arguments breed discord, suspicion of dishonesty, mistrust, and over-possession. Secret feelings surface during this fit of wrath, leaving you feeling resentful and dissatisfied.
Ultimately, you learn to be content by yourself or to be prepared to give in completely since your partner will hurt you and won’t say sorry or regret what they did.
Small arguments are depicted as breeding grounds for more significant issues, such as discord, mistrust, and possessiveness. The eruption of secret feelings during moments of frustration adds a layer of complexity, leading to resentment and dissatisfaction. Great insight on this.
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Thank you for the great article