Chirywrites: YOUR MOMENT

Sometimes it’s the fear of the unknown or the fear of what happened the last time. However, most times it is the fear of not being enough. Human beings are accustomed to winning, and no matter what our niche is, we try to shine in it. What happens when you lose, or worse, when you don’t make it? What happens when that business you gave your all to comes crumbling down? What happens to that loan you are servicing—the one you took for the business? What happens to the remaining stock that you still have but can’t sell? There is you who took the chance and went back to school because you thought that if you gave yourself the gift of better skills, you could do better at the workplace. Just after your graduation, you got fired or your contract ended, and the chances aren’t looking so good at employment. What happens to you, then?
We walk around eggshells when it comes to finances because every time someone says they are struggling, we judge them. We say they should have saved or invested. You don’t know what they did or didn’t, and just because you can see them struggling doesn’t give you the right to judge. That friend that is doing well, celebrate them. Let them enjoy their win, for you don’t know how much they gave to get there. That friend who is drowning in debt and pain,do not condemn them, for you don’t know how much they have tried to get out. Most people say that they lose friends when their dynamics change, and that is sad. But maybe it’s a good thing. I would think you would rather be friendless than have friends who are jealous of you and your success. You would rather be alone than with people who make you feel worse than you already do. Maybe your circumstances had to change for you to grow up. So look around you and see the scars of your labor. Get up and try again. Look around you, see the fruits of your labor, and celebrate with no guilt. Right now, In your moment,accept it, learn from it, and grow from your moment.There is only one of you.
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